If you're like me, you like questions. And ministry leaders should be great at asking questions. When we stop asking questions--or if we stop letting others ask questions--then we and the ministries and churches we lead will become stagnant. However, there is one question that is very, very dangerous. Chances are, someone has recently asked you this questions in one form or another in the past month. On the surface, it's an innocent enough question. In fact, it's usually asked by someone in your church or ministry who has a great heart. However, this question has the ability to quietly but systematically swallow up your impact as an organization.
So, what's the question I'm talking about? Here it is:
"Why don't we...?"
Yep, that's it. I bet I can guess what you're thinking.
Benjer, what in the world is wrong with that question? It's harmless. It's cute. It's not even a complete sentence--you left part of it out!
Sure, it seems harmless enough, but let me show you why it's so dangerous by using an example. Imagine you're getting ready to plan your summer calendar, and someone asks you, "Why don't we take our high school students on a trip to Kenya to serve impoverished orphans next summer?" In all likelihood, the person who poses this question to you has a big heart for orphans in Kenya. This person probably even believes that such a trip is the best thing for the high schoolers in your church to do next summer. But unless this is a huge Holy Spirit moment, you probably already can come up with several legitimate answers to this person's question--reasons why you
shouldn't take your high schoolers to Kenya next summer.
We already have a trip in the planning stages. It would be too expensive for all but a few of our high school students. I don't think your group is ready for such a trip. Of course, the person who really wants your high school students to go to Kenya next summer will have an answer to each of your objections. And if you run out of additional objections, you just might find yourself planning a short-term mission trip to Kenya, even though you don't think it's what God is leading your high school students to do.